@denapettigrew95027 years agoI have the book and sisters need to take heed to this book ... THE TRUTH MAY HURT 111
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@ninabrownstone88067 years agoI've recently read her book, and I agreed with most of it and what she saying in this podcast. As a Black Woman, I Totally understand what she's talking about. So many of us are angry about what she said, but it holds true to this day. ...99
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@bigballer13995 years agoSister Shahzazad Ali is a GEM of a woman. She’s wise, knowledgeable, and humble. Much love and respect to her. 🙏🏾❤️ 49
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@bittertruth14448 years agoI noticed that this channel had only three comments before me. I found that to be very telling. If this video was about dissing each other (BM BW) that would be 1000+ comments and all of them snipping at each other. I'm old enough to have bought this book when it first came out. This book is as relevant now as it was back then. I believe that if both BM and BW could have done 1/3rd of what this sister had suggested twenty-plus years ago we may not be in the condition we are now. ...116
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@caracasboogie5 years ago"If she passed me on the street she would act like she didn't know me." Wow that's really heavy. 19
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@michellecienna86094 years agoI read her book last year at 28 years old never had I heard anything like her teachings. She really changed my life and I would love to tell her how. 16
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@ninabrownstone88067 years agoStop buying these iPhones, and teach these girls how to cook, clean their house, and stop smoking CIGARILLOS. Learn how to read and read often. 161
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@mallswordislaw57237 years agoI can listen to this sistah speak all day long 31
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@mightyblack15 years agoMs.Ali was right back then and she's still right today. 29
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@SAN_E74 years agoI just recently forwarded a couple of short videos regarding the book to my 3 sisters (one is married). Their responses? 1. "Don't agree" 2. "Wow" 3. "Let's just stick to funny vids" When I questioned what was the problem or why was there disagreement, I got no responses! I will always and forever support my beautiful black men! ...19
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@chrisgreene46728 years agoI love her teachings concerning the "black woman". Many women feel it's belittling and weak to trust and allow the black man to be the leader in our homes and follow his instruction. We are the only race and women who are taught this unacceptable behavior. It actually takes a very strong black woman to humble herself and let our men do what they were born to do . I have always had a great respect and admiration for The Black Man and have received nothing short in return from them. I feel an obligation to uplift encourage and follow His Lead and defend His integrity.The first man to grace the earth the strongest both mentally and physically with all they have to deal with I couldn't imagine and they still provide and protect their families!!!! ...74
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@gorgeouslady56126 years agoWhat do young black people know how to do? Can you read, can you cook, can you figure out problems on your own, do you talk and visit your older relatives?. What are you really learning in school?. What are your interest other than Rap and basketball!. do you go to the library and read and research on your own?. What positive things can you teach your little brother or sister?. ...43
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@SalymahIV4 years agoThis woman is amazing. Her teachings need to be in every Afro American household. 6
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@CentsMy108 years agoThat public assistance and welfare was the WORST thing to happen to Black women. Many thought that made you independent, but once your White Daddy get tired of providing and he keeps cutting your "benefits" what are you going to do Black woman? ...31
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@stoplookinent47915 years agoA good women recognizes a good man.... 20
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@kentonthompson43254 years agoTrue story, 1990 was the best time to catch our culture from self-destruction. She was ahead of her time, charming, attractive and completely lady-like! If i could have one woman like this I wouldn't be looking for a few......12
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@jamesharden6437 years agoYESSS!!!!!! I LOVE THIS WOMEN....100 SALUTE 28
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@intelligentthinker80855 years agoWhen I am around family and friends having discussions regarding the challenges that affect the black community. They often get upset with me when I say that "IT IS THE WOMANS FAULT FOR BEING A SINGLE MOTHER AND/OR REARING A CHILD ALONE." My reason for the statement is because the woman decides who she wants to have intercourse with (not the man), the woman has the most access to the various options of contraceptives (not the man). Lastly, the woman makes the decision on terminating the pregnancy, adoption, or rearing the child (not the man). When I see woman who have never been married but have multiple children with multiple fathers, I automatically assume that she is sexually irresponsible. Being a single mother is an epidemic in the black community and we have come to the point to where we embrace the concept of having children out of wedlock. Then we wonder why we have so many challenges in our community. It is due to a total break-down in the family structure. 1) Ladies if the man that you are dating/courting etc... has children that you rarely or never see, chances are he is a dead-beat dad. 2) Just because your mother/father did it does not make it right. "Romans 12:2 KJV States: And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God." 3) Do not expect for some man to come along and assume responsibility for your children. Those are the one's that are truly special. 4) Remember that it would selfish on your behalf for your new man to assume responsibility for your children while neglecting his own. 5) If this applies to you, please do not take it personal. Instead, instill the proper values into your daughter and encourage her to be sexually responsible. There is nothing wrong with birth control SHALOAM ...25
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@librachild44304 years agoPeace b upon Mother Goddess Shahrazad Ali 4 reawakening d mummies & ushering n Ma'at.She definitely is an Ancient Soul who was born w d Crown of Life. 6
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@jgrizzy4 years agoShe sound like she came str8 from GOD...so nurturing...wow if i had a woman like this. The universe would be the limit.... 9
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@caracasboogie5 years agoAttitude determines altitude(how high you go) 13
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@carlosharris788 years agoSHOW YOUR LOVE & APPRECIATION TO THE QUEEN MOTHER ALI BY SUPPORTING HER WORK, BOOKS & ETC. AND AT THE SAME TIME CREATE A LARGER PLATFORM FOR HER MESSAGE TO BE HEARD! THANK YOU! 29
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@ellenfoxworth57558 years agoI love this sister this is my rollmoldle 31
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@calvincastillo25485 years agoPlease my beautiful black women, humble yourselves pray and seek The Most High. 15
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@michelleg99725 years agoI admire her an respect her so much, for her to even give a damn explaining to us how to act towards each other, an speaking on things we can identify with. Much love an respect all the way from Indianapolis ❤ Shahrazad Ail ...11
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@freedomchildcarr66368 years agoThank you very much Sister Shahrazad. You are very much a blessing to us. 20
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@anthonynichols52665 years agoI love this woman ! And all she stands for ! And the upfront out truths she’s always talked about. She is a dr an intelligent scholar to me ! Love u ! Stay strong sista ! 6
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@drobinson03288 years agoExcellent talk with the great Sister. Thank you. 12
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@TxLottoPlayersAssn7 years agoDon't want NO wigs... no heavy make up. Let us see the real woman. 38
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@williestandley82865 years agoThis is my favourite female speaker. I love her and her analytical thinking. She should get back on the speaking tour. I'd book her if I could contact her. 6
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@broughamreese35137 years agoI think this sister is down to earth,She tell it like it is .The black Woman is strong and nurturing but must learn to stand with her man and support him 100% and grow together. I'm looking for the book me and my girl will read together. . ...20
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@monet16327 years agoYes ma'am! I appreciate this so much. We have to open our eyes. The black family is power! Talk that talk! 11
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@Century20084 years agoI bought the very first publication, I applaud this sister for her insight. She is right if people would have listened her things would be different. Even today look at the likes and how low they are. This proves how right is, and how much influence black women have. ...3
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@JonJoeTruth6 years agoShahrazad Ali, tell them again, I don't think they heard you. 12
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@HaAhyashahChaakam3 days agoThis information is timeless. Thank you Mrs. Shahrazad Ali.
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@ariestrucker78325 years agoI just hate that she was silenced for all those years when the community needed her so much. Smh she wasn't there for us 7
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@juanrivera43123 years agoTHANK YOU BELOVED SISTER, SHALOM FROM THE VIRGIN ISLANDS. 🙏 ✊ 👏 1
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@gmanstyler73824 years agoI love this woman awesome and she is truly a queen I have both books and love them both and have learned so much the truth she’ll set you free 3
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@kennethjones56917 years agoBless you, bless you , we love you. You are on the money. We need you so much you are our salvation You were right then and are right now. 3
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@zachariah-binyisrayl55703 years agoShe was right 30 yrs ago...and she's STILL right today in 2021. (nuff said) 1
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@o.g.geezer70584 years agoThank you for sharing Queen Ali once again. Her message as well as energy is strong and consistent from the seventies to this day. Big love to you both and all the other queens. 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 1
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@Myjourney3892 years agoThis woman was attacked in 1990. We would not be in this mess that we are in regards to relationships had we listened. Now we think confusion is normal. 3
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@dawngibson33315 years agoThe last time I've eaten 🐖 I was 5 years old, I'm 54 now, never cooked 🐖 for my children, they are adults now, I will never eat that filthy animal again neither will they 19
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@newcustoms40195 years agoI love Sister Ali and all that she does. 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
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@jaysonb73274 years agoI finished reading your book last week, and then everything became clear, nothing before it's time... Thank you Aunty.
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@larrylove50814 years agoAmerica gave us Oprah the black mamie instead of the modern Harriet Tubman of black women Elder Ali 4
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@theantiquatedsoul27953 years agoQueen Mother! As a young woman, I can honestly say she is not wrong! 1
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@denmark5558 years agoEverything she says is the truth, especially concerning what black people are reading now. I recall working in a book store many years ago, and black women refused to read anything other than romance. Not to mention her words on Iyanla Vanzant, she's in the audience at one of the talk shows Sharhazad Ali was on. ...18
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@saleemzaidmuwwakkil68467 years agoI BOUGHT THE BOOK AND WENT HOME AND CURLED UP AND READ YOUR BOOK!!! I LOVED IT AND WANTED A WIFE LIKE YOU!!! BUT REMEMBER THE HONORABLE ELIJAH MUHAMMAD HAD A BOOK , HOW TO EAT TO LIVE 1&2. 8
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@earthgoddess47794 years agoThat's so true,they have really left you out of history of black female writers. I just found out about you on Hidden colors I feel so fortunate wow. And we share the same birth date I read😭🙌🏽. You've inspired me so much,thank you. ...2
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@melodyspriggs75766 years agoI stopped eating pork twenty years ago 10
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@kiaracouch93153 years ago"It ain't about doing it everytime you happy"
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@JP-en6cn5 years agoI would like to meet her she's very professional 👍 4
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@gorgeouslady56126 years agoIt is no different than being on crack! you have to want to get clean and stop using for good!. I wanted to change so i admitted myself into a drug treatment program!. Your life is unmanageable and you have hit rock bottom SISTA'S AND BROTHA'S!. ...10
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@jayanderson69644 years agoStill in 2020 I love my sister Iyanla...with that being said I'm aware of sister Ali also now.I would love to hear sister Iyanla acknowledge and make public where she received her healing from.Just saying,I hear A Lot of sister Ali in sister Iyanla & I understand when she says that some are erased from "history"🖤 &Blessings2All ...1
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@marconisatari83254 years agoI stopped eating pork. I tell people the pork meat is not good for them. 6
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@marconisatari83254 years agoEvery so often I may eat pepperoni's with pork in it. I need to stop that. 4
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@charmecharme8766 years agoWhere does she get her lovely hats/head coverings? 6
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@user-rv9yz7iq7i11 months agoThanks from Imani DFW PowerNomics TT think tank a T. E.A.M- together economically active members ( together) in Texas
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@Aaron_Davis4 years agoAnyone know the reason why I can’t watch this on my phone? It’s saying “This video is unavailable on this device.” I’ve never seen that before
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@terrancewalton27626 years agoWere can i go to buy both books the black womans guide to the black man and the blackmans guide to the black woman 2
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@sandybeaches93218 years agoThe man on the picture is this Shahrazad's husband? 16
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@AnytimeAssemblypros3 years ago she never acknowledged her. Basically she was her teacher. 1
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@mightyblack14 years agoAlot of our sistas not all are holding out on sex. 2
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@OhThatsNuna8 years agowhat does she eat I know pork isn't good I learned that from her but she doesn't talk about what's good to eat 8
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@dyonomitereacher81404 years agoTHIS GREAT BLACK WOMAN GAVE BIRTH TO THE BLACK FEMALE BOOK SALES. There is only one thing I hate is, I want to see the people talking as they are talking. 1
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@SK-nd7db3 years agoI would love to hear Miss Ali's input on these "folks" out here that worship dogs so much!
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@melodyspriggs75766 years agoI was married to one nut for 17 years I have his two kids I am still catching hell 3
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@raycurry41682 years agoWake up black people.. listen to her words!!!!!!
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@bodybldrmarcus4 years agoThis sista is deep beyond deep and I thoroughly enjoy listening to her truth! 1
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@AnytimeAssemblypros3 years agoIts about the women and man working together to build a family together. Then your children doing the same. Then their children doing the same. Then their children doing the same. That should take care of our lineage until about the year 2321. Understand our lineage is being threatened and stunted. ...
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@rae72694 years agoI can't wait to share my future husband! 3
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@blackseed24417 years agoYeah. Thats what my mom and wife what cook are dont eat at from the south my mom ate it and fead it to my dad lol 2
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@LMaxx52 years agoTeach Queen Mother! THE DEVIL IS A LIE!
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@jahlion95464 years agoAn teach the kids dat wen prepare ing food,don't make it a habit of touching the food and lick their fingers dat is so nasty and disgusting , I see so many adults doing dat no ettiquet dat so ever. 1
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@rbuceuuu90795 years agoPeople have there own way of life and how they wanna live thats just it nobody what people follows society and social media 1
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@williamblockson96792 years agoDid our Shaharazar Ali sister mean when she said , women and men both love their children the same , but men express it differently ? She said “ the same “ which I believe she meant “ differently . “ So ,am I right or wrong at her words when she said “ the same , but meant “ differently “ ? Need we say more ? B1 . Amin and Shalom . ...
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@TxLottoPlayersAssn7 years agoPower over food??? So you saying that you can KILL HIM with the food??? 1
مقاطع الفيديو ذات الصلة على Shahrazad Ali Sisterhood Defining A Good Black Wombman:
I'm old enough to have bought this book when it first came out. This book is as relevant now as it was back then. I believe that if both BM and BW could have done 1/3rd of what this sister had suggested twenty-plus years ago we may not be in the condition we are now. ... 116
1. "Don't agree"
2. "Wow"
3. "Let's just stick to funny vids"
When I questioned what was the problem or why was there disagreement, I got no responses!
I will always and forever support my beautiful black men! ... 19
talk and visit your older relatives?. What are you really learning in school?. What are your interest other than Rap and basketball!.
do you go to the library and read and research on your own?. What positive things can you teach your little brother or sister?. ... 43
Being a single mother is an epidemic in the black community and we have come to the point to where we embrace the concept of having children out of wedlock. Then we wonder why we have so many challenges in our community. It is due to a total break-down in the family structure.
1) Ladies if the man that you are dating/courting etc... has children that you rarely or never see, chances are he is a dead-beat dad.
2) Just because your mother/father did it does not make it right. "Romans 12:2 KJV States: And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God."
3) Do not expect for some man to come along and assume responsibility for your children. Those are the one's that are truly special.
4) Remember that it would selfish on your behalf for your new man to assume responsibility for your children while neglecting his own.
5) If this applies to you, please do not take it personal. Instead, instill the proper values into your daughter and encourage her to be sexually responsible. There is nothing wrong with birth control
SHALOAM ... 25
Shahrazad Ail ... 11
I love her and her analytical thinking. She should get back on the speaking tour. I'd book her if I could contact her. 6
SHALOM FROM THE VIRGIN ISLANDS. 🙏 ✊ 👏 1
You were right then and are right now. 3
Big love to you both and all the other queens. 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 1
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myself into a drug treatment program!. Your life is unmanageable and you have hit rock bottom SISTA'S AND BROTHA'S!. ... 10
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So ,am I right or wrong at her words when she said “ the same , but meant “ differently “ ? Need we say more ? B1 . Amin and Shalom . ...